This blogpost (http://artonthepage.blogspot.com/2015/10/my-creative-life-motherhood.html) by an author/illustrator friend, Jill Bergman, shares what it means for her to be a mother/author/illustrator. It made me think about an article I wrote months ago (see below). Although I speaks from my own mother/children's book maker perspective, others might glean ideas about making other chosen crafts work. I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Kids and Craft:
Making Both Work
Angela C. Hawkins
For the last ten
years, I’ve opted to be a stay-at-home-mom. It’s wonderful, but it does come
packaged in creative limitations. I’ve teetered between ignoring my craft until
my kids grow older and growing my craft while ignoring my kids. It’s not a
one-size-fits-all game, but here’s how I try to balance both:
Most days
have pockets of creative time. A writing professor knew a published
stay-at-home mom who nabbed twenty minutes a day to write. Sometimes a mind-numbing
break while my kids have napped, snacked, or played is tempting, but I've rarely
regretted choosing to create. Much can
be done in focused swatches of time.
Notepads
are essential. They’ve kept my creativity streaming while I’ve nursed,
watched kids, and prepared food. They’ve kept me engaged and ready for those creative
time pockets.
Watching
kids is productive. Watching my children play has been an opportunity to
soak up beautiful memories and improve
my writing and illustration. It has flooded my notebook with story ideas, and
my artistic mind has captured ways of working light, color, and child-like fun
into my illustrations.
A
stay-at-home mom doesn’t have to mean a play-at-home mom. I do play with my kids, but I feel that all day play is misleading
and debilitating for all of us. I try to show by example and expectation that lots of happiness can be found through ambition, hard work, sharing, creativity, and
productivity.Learn and
create together. Although it takes longer, learning and creating in tandem
with littler ones has honed my brainstorming, artistic, researching, and
teaching skills.
Learn from
kids. I’m often entangled in planning and details. My kids create
uninhibitedly, experimenting easily with new ideas and mediums. It reminds me to
let go and have more fun.Daily reading
is a boon. It’s important for my kids and my craft to read a lot – and I
can accomplish both at once! Reading to
them has fine-tuned my understanding of rhythm, rhyme, word choices, and
pacing.
Kid perspectives
are insightful. While reading together, I observe what engages their attention,
finds their chuckle bones, or leaves them distracted. I notice which covers,
titles, illustrations, and blurbs reach out to them.
Kids dish
out great advice. When I've encountered story and illustration problems, my children
offer meticulous advice from the way they see things. Since I am writing for kids, that perspective is
a sparkling asset.
Sharing my
work with them is an investment. Not only are my children my greatest fans,
but I love how my example inspires them
to create. Which inspires me to
create. Which inspires them to
create. Which . . .
Since my family will always be
first, there are days when I set my dreams aside. But with a little thought and
lots of perseverance, on most days I can squeeze in both.